Used stamps exchanges.

Dear friends, can we members contact directly with other members for a direct swap with a mutual agreement in a friendly manner. Is it out of the general terms and conditions of the website. We are given only two members only as a limit and have to wait for a long period for another swap.
In the event of any bad experience with any members of the group we can post here to warn others and to ban the member with whom you are not satisfied and write to the moderator of this group to interfere for help and ask the other members why action will not be taken. What do you think? What is your opinion? Any discussion and suggestions are most welcome here for further informations.

Thank you Krepki for your message.
There is something else I forgot to tell: Ashok/urindianfriend was a member of swap-bot too, in 2013 he was suspended: 26 PEOPLE DID NOT RECEIVE ANYTHING.
Do we need more evidence...............
http://www.swap-bot.com/user:urindianfriend

i have same - bad experience...
I said yes to Ashok proposal for private exchange. we agreed to send - I did - he didnt
and same as stevado (and others I guess) I got tricked by a person full of excuses.

This is a community, full of trust, so I think we dont have space for trick people any liers!

can I propose to ban Ashok by moderator, just to warn people?

August 18 in 2015 I made an appointment with urindianfrien (Ashok) for a private swap. I wrote about that before. Till today I received nothing. I understood Krepki did not receive anything too. In december I sent him a messagre, he even does not answer. I am angry and upset. First he wrote me I have to be patient (.......agust 18....), after that he wrote he was in bad health. Not bad enough to send 8 changes!!!!! in 100 stamps.club. I have enough reasons te believe he is a lier and he cheated us.
I feel it as my duty to warn every partner in the club not to make private appointments with urindianfriend. I am sorry about this, I collect stamps for 40 years, but this is really a painful disappointment. Sorry if my English is not perfect, it's not my native language.

about private swaps, we should always let each other know when we send and when we receive. simple as that. and also stamps should not be sent automatically before mutual agreement to swap... something a bit like this happened to me, i did not even know there was to be a swap:~ of course i will send back the same amount of stamps i receive but i cannot be expected to send particular stuff as a swap was not even agreed beforehand ;)

Ashok,
I guess same goes for our private exchange...?

Dear friend, you are impatient.. I didn't write you that I will not send you the stamps. Sometimes, some unexpected events happens to our life. And as I promised to send you my best, I will do try to give my best. I am preparing your packet and will post it tomorrow or the day after. I am not a spammer nor a liar or cheater. Like you I am also a good swapper. And I always send my swaps. But, sometimes something wrong happened in all of our life, so there may be some delay. Please don't mind anything and don't take any harsh decision against me. The good thing is that I have responded each time you wrote me. Thanks for being my swap friend. And please... Please forgive me for my delay in sending which is out of my way.... Believe me....!
With kind regards.
ASHOK

I have read this some time ago and now it's time to let you know my opinion. At this moment I do have problems with a private swap that's made in the beginning of August. I have sent 100 of my best stamps and till now I did not receive anything. I will wait one more month (of course my swappartner is warned), did I not recieve the stamps I will contact Danubius, BUT, I will name my partner in public to warn people he is unreliable.

I agree with your opinion.

We discussed about this in another topic.
I think it is better to send the moderator a private message when you have problems with a vertaling member here.
I think you shouldn't do that in public